I was having a conversation with a concerned parent after a transition seminar that I was leading. Her daughter was in the fall of her senior year in high school and the mom was very concerned. After listening to the women’s worry, I began to agree with her. Even though the daughter was still in high school, she had begun visiting the university campus, which was only 30 minutes away, almost every weekend. The student’s older sister was a junior at the same college and the high school senior felt right at home with her sister’s older friends. One night