Welcome back, y’all! I’m thrilled to have you join us as we continue our discussion about the wisdom shared in “The College Girl’s Survival Guide” by Hanna Seymour. In case you missed it, you can listen to our conversation on Episode 51 of The Launch Mission Podcast.
I want to reiterate just how essential it is to have this book by your side throughout your college experience. Trust me when I say that Hanna’s guidance is like having a trusted friend whispering advice in your ear whenever you need it most. Keep it close on your nightstand—you’ll thank yourself later.
Now, let’s talk about some of the concerns addressed in the book. College life is a whirlwind of new experiences, challenges, and opportunities, and it’s easy to feel overwhelmed at times. But fear not, because “The College Girl’s Survival Guide” has your back.
Roommate Woes
Ah, roommate drama—where do we even begin? Whether it’s dirty dishes piling up in the sink, late-night disruptions, or the dreaded conversation about living arrangements, navigating life with a roommate can be a rollercoaster ride.
At the heart of it all lies communication—the cornerstone of any healthy relationship. I get it, confrontation is HARD. But, especially when living with someone, we have to be able to express our feelings, emotions, and thoughts in a healthy way that allows us to share and be heard, while also being able to hear what the other person has to say! “The goal of communicating in conflict should be mutual understanding and reconciliation.”
So, how do we do that?
Listen. Put yourself in their shoes. Ask follow-up questions to ensure you understand what they’re trying to say. Apologize for what you need to own. And show as much grace as you would want to be shown. After all, you’re both navigating this new chapter together. I promise it is possible to have conflict, find resolution, and discover new depth in your relationship!
Jesus, Take the Wheel
Ever worried about how your faith will be impacted by the freedom of college? Maybe you haven’t, but if you have, maybe these questions sound familiar: How do I find Christian friends? Are there churches for college students? What does it mean to live according to God’s will in college? Do I have to share my faith? How do I even do that?
Props to you for considering this when stepping into a new season of life. Doubt is normal. Fear is normal. Asking questions is normal. Wondering how to follow God in college is so normal.
While some of those questions will follow you throughout every season of life, seeking answers in college can really influence your faith.
In “The College Girl’s Survival Guide,” Hanna urges you to find a church—a place where you can find accountability (perhaps a mentor or older voice to talk to!). Pick a church family and faithfully attend every week. While it may be tempting to sleep in on Sundays, investing in a faith-based community can provide the stability and guidance needed to navigate the ups and downs of college life.
“Church Shopping,” as I like to call it, can be fun! And something to invite people to do with you. (*Cough cough* hello new friends?!) Consider checking out a new denomination, or attending a church with traits that align with your passions– Ex: overseas missions, working with the homeless, a children’s ministry. Remember it’s hard to judge a church by a one-time experience. Try attending 3-4 weeks in a row before making a decision!
So, whether you’re dealing with roommate woes or seeking spiritual guidance, remember that you’re not alone. “The College Girl’s Survival Guide” is here to offer practical wisdom and encouragement every step of the way. Stay tuned for more insights and tips to help you thrive in college and beyond.