As you, high school seniors, approach the transition into college, the journey ahead may seem daunting… With questions swirling about fitting in, achieving goals, and building an identity, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. However, a powerful truth that can anchor you during this time is this: You are seated with Christ.
In Episode 76 of The Launch Mission Podcast, guest Heather Holleman illuminated this idea, grounding it in Ephesians 2:6, which states, “And God raised us up with Christ and seated us in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus.” This passage reveals that you already have a place at the best table imaginable, one that provides security and affirmation in your identity.
Embracing Your Identity
Understanding that you are seated with Christ means recognizing your inherent worth, independent of external pressures. As Heather shared, she discovered this transformative perspective at the age of 18. Instead of fixating on her appearance—something many of us can relate to—she learned to focus on how to love others. “How can I love people through my face? How can I love people better through how He made me?” This shift in focus allowed her to move past self-doubt and embrace her unique identity, radiating God’s love rather than worrying about fitting in.
This is a crucial lesson as you prepare for college. Instead of stepping onto campus fixated on your looks, your social status, or your academic achievements, consider how you can contribute positively to those around you. This mindset not only alleviates personal pressure but fosters genuine connections with others.
The Three A’s
Heather also discussed the three A’s—Appearance, Affluence, and Achievement—that often dictate how students perceive their worth. Here’s how being seated with Christ redefines each:
Appearance: Many students feel pressure to conform to societal standards of beauty. However, when you understand your worth in Christ, you can focus less on your looks and more on how to express love and kindness to others. As Heather recalls a compliment she received about having a “loving face,” it reminds us that our ability to connect with others is far more valuable than societal beauty standards.
Affluence: The need to keep up with others financially can be a source of stress. Knowing you’re seated with Christ means you have access to God’s abundance, fostering a heart of gratitude. Shift your focus from what you lack to appreciating the blessings you do have, cultivating a sense of contentment and joy.
Achievement: In a world that often equates worth with success, it’s easy to compare yourself to others. But being seated with Christ allows you to embrace your unique path, trusting that God has a plan for your life that is distinct from everyone else’s. Your worth isn’t tied to grades or accolades; it’s anchored in your identity as a child of God.
Practical Steps for Transitioning
As you prepare for college, consider implementing practices that strengthen your connection to God and help you embrace your identity in Christ:
Journaling: Heather emphasizes the importance of developing a journaling practice. This isn’t just a diary—it’s a way to connect with God daily. Write down five things you’re thankful for, five people you’re praying for, and five stressors. This habit helps ground you in gratitude and reminds you of God’s presence in your life, making it easier to manage anxiety and overwhelming emotions.
Prayer: Begin your day with prayer, presenting your concerns and hopes to God. Like David in Psalm 5:3, lay your requests before Him and wait in expectation. Bringing your worries to God provides peace and clarity as you navigate the challenges of college life.
Focus on Others: As you enter new spaces, shift your focus from your insecurities to the people around you. Ask thoughtful questions and seek to encourage others. This not only builds connections but also reinforces the truth that your worth comes from your relationship with Christ, not from how you look or what you achieve.
Transitioning from high school to college is undoubtedly a significant change, but remembering that you are seated with Christ can provide a steady foundation. By embracing this identity and implementing practices that foster a deeper connection with God, you’ll find security in who you are and the role you’re meant to play in the lives of those around you. As you step into this new chapter, remember: you are loved, valued, and equipped for the journey ahead.